Chun,
You come this weekend to CWS, I give u flowers on your rod.
Vincent
“We (MFN forumers) are a few but together we are many. We are many among the millions of anglers yet to have their voices heard” - Majulah sukan memancing untuk negara
Hey guys…heard about this new lure called Tasmanian Devil He he he… Very good lah. Tried out out and got good bites. You should check it out. Alot of them in Tackle box (SJ).
I think they are better than Rapala. Really good action and easy to get a bite. Sebarau;s and Toman’s favourite.
Anyone else tried it our, please comment.
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Originally posted by vincent
Chun,You come this weekend to CWS, I give u flowers on your rod.
Vincent
“We (MFN forumers) are a few but together we are many. We are many among the millions of anglers yet to have their voices heard” - Majulah sukan memancing untuk negara
Vincent, aiya… saw this reply too late. Went to U4 forgot to ask flower from u… hahaha
in need of more Fishing luck. I wonder if Feng Shui works for Anglers?
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Originally posted by Izzy
Update for everyone.This kaki I wrote about just got married. Wish him the best. Will watch classifieds for sale of his equipment. Heheheh.
Good Fishing and Good Food Bring Good People Together
Ya, we wish him the best of luck too whoever he is, could be his mermaid also likes fishing like yours too, then instead of selling , he has to buy more if possible more custom made rods, heh heh heh!! How are you btw IZZY?
Fish tight…fish right!!! 
Thomas 
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Originally posted by Izzy
Update for everyone.This kaki I wrote about just got married. Wish him the best. Will watch classifieds for sale of his equipment. Heheheh.
Marriage might not be the end of fishing you know. Perhaps your kaki might be lucky like me and marry someone who allows him to fish when he wants. I managed to go fishing on my honeymoon. Check out the result
quote:Well,well, Nice fish indeed kram, you certainly are fortunate. Wish everybody were as lucky all the time.
Originally posted by kramquote:
Originally posted by Izzy
Update for everyone.This kaki I wrote about just got married. Wish him the best. Will watch classifieds for sale of his equipment. Heheheh.
Marriage might not be the end of fishing you know. Perhaps your kaki might be lucky like me and marry someone who allows him to fish when he wants. I managed to go fishing on my honeymoon. Check out the result
Good Fishing and Good Food Bring Good People Together
new fellos just come in
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Originally posted by grutoh
new fellos just come in
Hi Grutoh,
Welcome to MFN FORUM. Can you tell us more about yourself,
your fishing activities and what species do you catch,
looking forward to more posting from you, cheers!!
Fish tight…fish right!!! Thomas
thanks a lot bro
Very often we hear people getting married and they
lamented they don’t have time for fishing. It could
be true for certain people, but for only certain period,
before getting married, they lay off fishing for a while
to prepare for the big day and after getting married, they
devoted thier entire time attending to thier spouse, honey
this , honey that, very loving indeed, blissfully happy,
doing things together, then after doing so many things,
they missed out something, then the guy suggested fishing,
ah that’s it fishing and off they went for the comfort
of kelong fishing, eat, fish and sleep, how wonderful,
without doing any housework, enjoying the fresh air,
sunshine, very healthy living. Or they could travel up
country, to the chalet by the lake, where they could fish
for the whole day with food catered, here again , no worries,
enjoying the serenity, fresh air within the arms of mother’s
nature.
Marriage is not the end of fishing, it all depends on that
guy, whether fishing is in his blood or not, in most cases
I have seen those guys still go fishing after getting married.
Fish tight…fish right!!! Thomas
Honestly, I feel that such things happen simply because women tends to be a tad selfish. They like to think about themselves, how they feel, how neglected they will be, how they compared to fishing and then they get all jealous and ballistic.
I mean seriously, he married you - and not the fish, so what’s all the insecurity about? As some one has rightly put, it’s great that his hobby is fishing, and not gallivanting at some pub, flirting at some nightclub or drinking and dancing at some disco. That would be more worrying isn’t it? What can he possibly DO with a fish and a rod?
If women think less of themselves, and more of the man they love, they should try and understand that every man needs a hobby - be it playing computer games, playing pool, fishing, watching movies etc. Women have tons of hobbies - shopping, manicure, massage, facial, gossiping with friends. If guys have been made as petty as women, they should banned their wives from everything that makes them happy, and the marriage will certainly collapse.
Just as they have been generous to go shopping with us sometimes, women should not take it for granted that the guy has to do whatever she demands, and not do the things she doesn’t like. How in the world does a woman believe that men love shopping and all that manicure ****?
Marriage is about a couple respecting each other’s space. If a woman does not like fishing, the least she could do is let the man go, and find some other hobby to entertain herself. The key of this whole relationship is not to tie each other down, but give each other some time to do what they like, so that they can come back and share their experiences and joy. what’s there to share if both of them do EVERYTHING together?
The woman does not have to “sacrifice” herself to go fishing with her man if she does want to. But she can support him in other ways. Not stopping him is one of the best things she can do. Just as a man would give up fishing for love, by that gesture the woman should be ashamed of herself. Subsequently, what she can do to reciprocate that love is to support him by buying him his favourite fishing rod for his birthday, giving him a surprise holiday treat at a fishing kelong, buy him wonderful books related to fishing etc.
Even if she doesn’t like fishing, she can still make the man happy by supporting him isn’t it?
The problem with most marriages is that women wants all the men to sacrifice for them, but they are holding on to what they like to do, depriving all men of their freedom. What kind of marriage is this? No wonder divorce rates are going up, infidelity is on the rise, and marriages are seemingly fewer.
Now wonder men start saying that they cannot “communicate” with their spouse. I began to believe that that’s not just a general statement. There is so much truth in there - because communication is supposed to be two-way. Not my wife says this I have to concede. Whatever I say, she doesn’t care and doesn’t listen.
If you would, show this article to your woman, and get them to reflect on themselves. If a man gives up on you, it’s really not his fault because women just want men to understand all about them, but they are not willing to enter the man’s psyche and give them what they want. And sometimes what they want, is really simple.
Of course, men should not take this opportunity and arrange multiple fishing trips with their kakis. Since you are married, balance is super important. Always make sure your wife knows she is always more important. If you miss any important dates such as birthdays, anniversaries etc because of your fishing trips, you are asking for it.
My oh My, you disappeared for sometime and reappear with this excellent write up. Thank you for sharing your kind opinion and I hope some blokes here can show this thread to thier wives. On the contrary, I also hope that on some extreme cases, those henpecked husbands will not be banned from fishing forever if thier wives were to read this. Like you said cases like this is heading towards a divorce. My advice to those single fishos who are thinking of looking for mermaids, is to look for some one like what Berrynice had described, look for some one who can understand, to let you have a healthy hobby like fishing. Cheers!!
Fish tight…fish right!!! Thomas
Thomas you are right,
I have been fishing more since after marriage … No need to do house chores…
Well balance is needed between fishing and wife … it is the give & take sceanario…
anyway Man will be man …
Lonewolf
BN,
every fisho’s dream…i’m moved by ur understanding of our species! a real eye-opener! thanx!
FiR3 TiG3R®
- U4 2006 - team member of BBOBs (Bersia Band of Brothers) + undercover(probation) Team Longkang Gang
- U5 2007 - Team Longkang Gang
Looooong Live LongKang Gang!
tight lines, bent rods, spitting lures & singing reels…
berrynice,
How I wish that my fiancee is half as understanding as you. Only half will do. During our early years of courtship, she was very understanding towards my hobby and also accompany me to fishing and even bait the hook for me but.. now she has changed a lot.. which leads me to think whatever she did before is merely a sacrifice and now she is against me going fishing. All I ask for is only once a week in fishing which she thinks is too much and she wanted me to accompany her during the weekends and ask me to go fishing during my normal working weekdays. Moreover I see her almost everyday. Sigh… I will be marrying her by the end of this year and now I am trying to fish as much as I can as I am afraid that I wil lose my fishing visa due to respect for her. How I wish you can explain to her through email on how guys feel about fishing… [:(]</font id=“purple”>
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"Angling may be said to be so like cooking that it can never be fully learned "
Hi Jey,
I am surprise you have that feeling that you are somehow restricted at this stage, I thought that your mermaid also like fishing, both of you have been fishing for many years now. May be you can explain to her that fishing was your No.1 love before you met her. Anyway, now the priority is to her, love , care , understanding, responsibilities to be provided to her without fail, but she must not deprive you of your love for fishing to maintain the harmony till the end. If you feel that things are not going to work out, you better think carefully before put that noose round your neck. It is still not too late, you still can pull your handbrake and look for someone who is more understanding like Berrynice. All the best to you!!
Fish tight…fish right!!! Thomas
Well, people change I guess but…I will still love her no matter what. She knows for sure that my first love is fishing before met her, I think I just need to remind her again. If I am single and unattached, I will surely go for berrynice hehehe [:p] </font id=“purple”>
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"Angling may be said to be so like cooking that it can never be fully learned "
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Originally posted by Jeymatt
Well, people change I guess but...I will still love her no matter what. She knows for sure that my first love is fishing before met her, I think I just need to remind her again. If I am single and unattached, I will surely go for berrynice hehehe [:p]
{Team Longkang Tarpon - U4 1st Runner-up}
{Team SureCatch Malaysia - U3}</font id=“black”>"Angling may be said to be so like cooking that it can never be fully learned "
Hi Jey, why not let your mermaid read the above threads, I bet she will be more understanding after reading.
Fish tight…fish right!!! Thomas
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Originally posted by thomas leequote:
Originally posted by Jeymatt
Well, people change I guess but...I will still love her no matter what. She knows for sure that my first love is fishing before met her, I think I just need to remind her again. If I am single and unattached, I will surely go for berrynice hehehe [:p]
{Team Longkang Tarpon - U4 1st Runner-up}
{Team SureCatch Malaysia - U3}</font id=“black”>"Angling may be said to be so like cooking that it can never be fully learned "Hi Jey, why not let your mermaid read the above threads, I bet she will be more understanding after reading.
Fish tight…fish right!!!
Are you crazy, bro Thomas to ask Jey’s fiancee to read all the above after Jeymatt penning “…If I am single and unattached, I will surely go for berrynice…”??
Jam 
